Last spring I went to my brother's high school graduation. His last name is Williams and like all people who's loved ones graduate last(ish) I whispered and visited with family around me. I know, how rude...but we all have kids and are scattered all over Texas, so this was the perfect time to catch up. My uncle leaned over at one point and asked, "So what do you do now? Are you teaching? Coaching?" I told him I was a graphic designer for a t-shirt company and he laughed. It